For the real hero in you

"The older you get, the lonelier you become and the deeper you need love," said Leonard Cohen's teacher.

As we move through our lives, we begin to glorify ourselves and our personal life stories more and more, and so we begin to drift away from deep meaningful love.

You must have heard, haven't you: "Eeee....when I was...", .."In my time..", "What has happened to me, has not happened to anyone..", "What have I been through eeeeee..” int.

This so-called hero in you has not had much fun in his life. Maybe he's been humiliated, shamed, maybe he's been traumatized or broken… well, if we can let go of him, of identifying and glorifying him, maybe we can find our rightful place in this universe full of goodness and love, which is much bigger and deeper than what we have known so far.

I know speakers, coaches and all motivational trainers say that to become a hero you have to face your fears, transform yourself, (and along the way) get 25k followers on Instagram 😊 But that's not this hero's journey about which I am talking to you.

The hero or heroine I'm talking about here can make their marriage work. This heroine can build a new relationship with her teenage child. The hero refuses the gifts he receives as a bribe, he/she can swallow his pride and say: "I don't know - I'm getting older - Give me a hand", or "You're better than me, bravo!".

According to me, if you want to become a hero in your life you should not abuse your heart to get short pleasures or material victories.

In fact, a hero is the one who defeats the part next to him that says he should be better, more successful, more than what he is! He needs to defeat the voice inside him that subtly whispers in his ear: You are not good enough, try harder.. "There must be something wrong with you, see how the other one succeeds".

For me, a hero is the one who can stop that aspect of life's journey and start anew, with a new found feeling that he should not identify with that part of himself that needs to win, needs to improve, needs to know.

Because that is where your story of deep love and spiritual life begins.

Embrace humility in everything. Life is not out to get you, nor are your struggles your fault. Every defeat is just an angel, tugging at your sleeve, telling you that you don't have to keep banging your head against the wall.

Detach yourself from that aspect, and let him remain there trapped in his lonely ambitions!

Continue to walk calmly so that life with its love and spaciousness embraces you with both arms.

Love and light

Bibi Pesheva