From Loneliness to Connection: Why Love Requires Courage

We are increasingly seeing young, quality and emotional people who are good, beautiful, intelligent – but have been alone for years. Some of them are already in their 30s or 40s, without a quality relationship or deep connection with the people around them. Some go unnoticed through life, no matter how deep they are, they simply do not create an opportunity for someone to get to know them or recognize them as their partner. Today, many women and men are alone. It is as if the trend of a “virtual” relationship or a long-distance relationship is increasingly present. For example, partners or potential lovers constantly correspond with each other and spend hours in front of the screen, but as if they do not notice that months and years pass by, without creating a real or deep relationship. There are also many relationships without (o)bsorski, where it is as if the person cannot position themselves or ask for what they really need in the relationship – recognition, their place and respect.

It really seems like after the pandemic period something has changed in the collective energy. It seems like no one is good enough for anyone. We live through screens – pictures, likes, reactions. However, No like can replace the warmth of a hug, the touch, or the real excitement. which arises from human proximity and contact.

"Abstinence" "is the mother of all neuroses" and that is exactly what we feel around us today. Isolation is becoming a lifestyle. And passivity, no matter how "safe" it may seem, is actually emotionally empty. What we need in relationships, I call basic aggression. Now when we say the word aggression, we immediately associate it with something “bad” or unfavorable for us. But what is it, and why is it necessary to develop this “vitamin of life”, you will be able to find out at the workshop. "From Self to Us" – which we created together with Bojana Stojmenovic– psychologist, family and systems counselor

This is an interactive workshop designed to remind us that love does not begin with the other person...but with yourself.

Partnerships are some of the most powerful mirrors. They reflect our fears, patterns, longings, but also our power.
How to connect with ourselves, with our partner, whether we are clear and mature in the relationship is the topic we will discuss and practice this Wednesday.

This is not just a webinar. It is a call to action. An invitation to meet ourselves, to understand our own patterns, fears and desires – and to create a space for authentic connection.

Carl Jung said:

"Meeting others is important, but the real encounter is meeting yourself."

Love is not accidental. It is built consciously, step by step. Love is courage – to open up, to show yourself, to try again. And no, that is not shameful. On the contrary – it is maturity.

If you feel it's time to change the story – We are waiting for you on May 14th at 8:00 PM, online.

You can reserve your place here:

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Love and light

Bibi Pesheva