Family constellations as a life healing and therapeutic method

Priest and psychologist, founder of family establishments, Bert Hellinger.

The family constellations are considered to be the most effective psychotherapy method for solving life's dilemmas, i.e. the problems of the human psyche that are of a systemic nature, for example: partnership, love, children, health or work. Family constellations are an alternative approach that helps you look at your life or problems from a completely different perspective.

This technique was originally developed in the nineties of the last century by a German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger.He worked for almost 50 years with families as a family therapist and deeply believed that energy can be both positive and negative and can be found in family relationships and communications, going back several generations.

Therapeutic and healing The Family Constellations approach is designed to reveal the hidden dynamics that exist in relationships with people, whether they are family members, colleagues or friends, in order to resolve all the hidden and unhidden factors that influence them.

Family constellations search for the roots of the problem and solve it at the level at which it arose.

The professor Bert Hellinger, for those who do not know him, died at the age of 93 on 09/19/2019. The German, who was once a priest, left celibacy and became a psychotherapist and writer, today known all over the world for his unique therapeutic method "Family Constellations", left this beautiful text for all you beautiful people:

"Life will disappoint you so that you stop having illusions and see the reality in which you live.

Life destroys everything that is unnecessary, so that only the important remains.

Life will not leave you alone to blame without accepting things as they are.

Life will take what you have until you stop complaining and start being grateful.

Life sends conflicting people to heal you, so you stop looking at them and start thinking about what's inside you.

Life will make you fall again and again until you decide to stop falling.

Life will lead you astray and put you at crossroads, until you stop wanting to control everything and accept to follow the natural course of events.

Life will put enemies in your path until you stop "reacting" to them.

Life will scare you as many times as it needs to, until you lose your fear and restore your faith in it.

Life will separate you from the people you love, until you understand that we are not this body, but an immortal soul.

Life will laugh at you many times, until you stop taking things so seriously and start laughing at yourself.

Life will break you into as many pieces as it takes for the light to seep into the cracks in you.

Life will confront you with "rebels" until you stop controlling them.

Life repeats the same message, over and over if necessary, sometimes even with screams and slaps, until you finally hear the message it is telling you.

Life sometimes even sends lightning and storms to wake you up.

Life humiliates you and knows how to hit and beat you, again and again until you decide to bury your Ego.

Life denies you wealth, possessions, and power until you stop desiring it and begin selflessly helping and serving.

Life trims your wings and roots, until you need neither wings nor roots, so that your being can fly freely and easily.

Life denies miracles, until you understand that everything that happens to you is a miracle.

Life shortens your time when you are in a hurry to learn how to live.

Life mocks you until you become "nothing", then you become everything.

Life doesn't give you what you want, but what you have to develop.

Life hurts and tortures you, until you give up your whims and "tantrums" (rage) and learn how to enjoy conscious breathing.

Life in front of you hides treasures until you learn to step out into life and start looking for them.

Life denies God, until you see him in everyone and everything.

Life wakes you up, squeezes you, breaks you, disappoints you. But believe me, he does it to bring out the best… until there is only LOVE left in you. “

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